Is Life What you Make It?

I hope you know that I just write what ever pops in my head.  If you are looking for extremely intelligent  writing, this is probably not the place for you.

Today, it's is life what you make it?  Do you live life like there is no tomorrow?  What would you do differently today if you knew tomorrow was it and whatever you have done thus far would be the mold to what people made of you the day after tomorrow.

I was going to work this morning and I dont' know why but I think alot when I am driving.  I think it is because I am trapped in a small area and can't get up and do anything else......ha ha.

I told my boss today that I thought that if you are nice to people they will be nice back.  I still believe that.  I think if there is a crabby person no one wants to be around them.  But, if a person would of taken a little time to talk to them and make them feel like what they said mattered, both would end up feeling better.  

As for me, I always think something really bad must of happened to the "nasty" person to make them not like people.  Maybe a friend told a secret of the "nasty" person.  Maybe someone died and the "nasty" person didn't know how to handle it so he/she ended up hating god and everyone on earth besides.  Maybe they didn't have a optimistic attitude and were always a pessimist.   How do you change someone like that.  Do you just ignore them and let them go their own way?  Or do you make them feel like what they say means something?  

I know I for one find it hard to be around complainers, whiners, the poor me kind of people.  It sometimes brings me down.  I was told not to feed in to their ways.  LOL.  I don't usually, but believe it or not I am not Hercules and I can break down like the best of them. 

I have always been an optimist.  I always start the new day with a good attitude (unless I am dead tired and then I'm testy........grins).  Sometimes when I have a real bad day I can't wait until the next day comes so I can start over and make a better day. 

So in a nutshell, I had better find a way to make a bad day good because you never know when its your last one on earth.

Until next time.
Cindy